Notes from home
Sep 01, 2008 in Class of 2012
Sara Scanes | Daily Kent Stater
I have a confession to make: I went home this weekend.
Yes, I know that all of you who have met me and heard me talk about my unbearable family are probably rolling your eyes and cursing my weakness, but I missed my grandma (and her cooking).
Plus, I had made a date with a cute boy (which went swimmingly).
Wouldn’t you have gone home, too?
Since I’m betting a majority of you don’t really care about the two-hour trip I made back home to Toledo, I’ll just highlight some of the general perks (and pitfalls) to a trip home, so that you may reap the benefits of my discoveries, both good and bad.
1) Even if you are pretty sure that NO ONE missed you, I’ve got news: EVERYONE DID. For example, my brother and I aren’t particularly affectionate with one another, and he hugged me voluntarily when I walked through my front door. Another example: my father and I aren’t on speaking terms, but when he found out I was coming home, he dropped $130 into my checking account. Ka-ching. In addition to the possibility of money, going home kind of makes you feel like the most popular person in town, so if you are suffering from a little low self-esteem (or an empty wallet), take a trip home, and you will surely be cured.
2) Parents and grandparents are convinced that you are both a) starving and b) isolated from civilization (i.e. Walmart, Target, or any other all-purpose store). I’m not saying take advantage of their misinformed state, but if you need something for your dorm, miss eating at your favorite restaurant or you have realized that galoshes are a must-have at KSU, let them know; they will surely help you out.
On that same note, make sure that you give your parents and grandparents your address here at school. You’ll receive mail within the week, and if you’re lucky, they’ll send you cookies like my grandma did.
3) Your own bed may not be as comfortable or as easy to sleep in as it once was. I know this may seem hard to believe, but trust me. At home, I have a queen-sized tempurpedic mattress with these super fuzzy blankets, and from night one in my dorm room, I’ve been missing it (for obvious reasons). Sadly, however, I had already gotten used to my bed in the dorm, and, for some odd reason, I couldn’t manage to get more than a few hours of sleep each night. (Saturday I went to bed at 4am, and I could only stay asleep until 9, when my eyes popped open and wouldn’t close again, despite my efforts).
My advice? Take a pillow or blanket or something from your dorm to try and combat this inexplicable phenomenon.
4) Take your laundry home. Someone else will do it.
5) If your car is a bit of a senior citizen, stop every hour or so to let her catch her breath and rest (and take the opportunity to get yourself Starbucks if you happen to be traveling the luxurious Ohio Turnpike). If you don’t, I can’t promise you that Molly, or Suzie, or whatever you named her, will make it all the way home. My car (which I still have yet to christen with a proper name) didn’t fair so well when I tried to make the whole trip back to campus without stopping: she sputtered, she jerked, she stalled, and she smoked. On the way home to Toledo, however, I had made a pit-stop halfway, and my baby was fine.
You live and you learn, eh?
I hope those little tidbits will help you out when you make your first trek home. I wish someone had told me about the last one… F minus.




